Dear Daughter,
You are the most wonderful treasure that I have and I’m blessed to have you in my life. As a father, I always want you to protect you and never lose sight of you. I want to be by your side, hold your hands when you feel alone, wipe your tears when you feel gloomy and guide you through the rough roads of life.
But I know, one day, you will have to move on. You will have to start a life of your own. A life where you will have someone to share your dreams with!
The day will come when I will see you dressed up as a bride, all set to start your new life with your life-partner. But before the day comes, I want you to know who your life partner should be. I want you to know what kind of a man actually deserves to be your future life partner.
1. He will respect you
He will be a man of dignity who knows what the rights of a woman are. He would respect you as an individual. He won’t ever demean you because you are a woman or considered by many in our Indian society as not par with men.
2. He will respect your space
He very well understands that each individual has an identity and space which should never be invaded. He would believe in giving you the needed space whether in your personal life or professional.
3. He will understand your love for your family
He would know what family is and therefore would have great regards for your family. He will respect and acknowledge the love and bond you share with your family and would work upon with you to grow it stronger.
4. He will accept your flaws & encourage you to overcome them
He will know what your weaknesses are but he would never put you down for the same. He would accept your flaws but even help you turn your weakness into your biggest strength.
5. He will take a stand for you when needed
You would never find yourself alone as he would always be there to hold your hand and support you through thick and thin. Whenever the need be, you will find him standing by your side and defending you.
6. He will encourage you to refine your talent or skill
He would always want you to succeed in life and realize your true potentials. He will help you refine your skills and put your inner talent to the best use.
7. He will never feel jealous or insecure
He will never bind you or set rules for you to abide by. There will be nothing that can make him feel jealous or insecure about your relationship with him. He will have the maturity to understand your relation pretty well.
8. He will trust you with all his heart
With him there will never be an air of doubt. Your relationship will flourish as he will trust you immensely and would always make you feel guarded. His trust on you will only get stronger and deeper.
9. He will wipe away your tears & put up a smile
There will be times when you will be upset and would want to cry your heart out, but you will always have him by the side to wipe those pearls and put a smile back on your face. Even if he happens to be the reason behind your tears, he won’t take time in apologizing and making you smile again.
10. He will know there’s a little girl in you who needs to be pampered
He will treat you as a young woman but he would also know that the little girl inside you also needs to be pampered occasionally. And he will never fail in doing so.
11. He will live life with a pinch of salt
He may have an intense approach to life, but he would know that humor and fun are needed to nurture a relation in the right way. He may not crack the funniest of jokes but his intentions to make you happy will always add on the fun factor.
12. He will never show false ego
Relations bite dust when ego takes over. He will be someone to understand this hard fact well and he would always keep ego out of your relation.
13. He will listen to you with delight
He won’t just listen to you for the sake of it. He will give you his undivided attention and would always be willing to hear from you. Whether he would speak a lot or not, he will never get tired hearing to what your heart has to say.
14. He will challenge you to aspire for more
He would be as strong as you, but more submissive. He would always make efforts to push your limits and make you face the challenges of life bravely.
15. He never fails to express his love
Love is the soul of life and he truly understands that. He would never shy away from expressing his true feelings for you. Time and again, you will find him expressing his love for you some way or the other!
My little princess, life can be a smooth and beautiful experience if you have found yourself a man who makes you feel loved. Look for it in your partner and you shall always be happy. I hope the best for you and wish your Mr. Right doesn’t keep you waiting long enough!