When there are two different individuals, there's ought to be a difference in opinion. And when we talk about it in the context of a marriage, then some fights are necessary enough to keep the spark alive. A marriage without little fights is quite like having a pizza without cheese. 

In fact, relationship experts hold the view that some spats are quite healthy for a relation because they help you understand your partner in a better way. However, if not handled well, these small arguments  can turn into a full blown battle which apparently will prove to be a threat for your relation. Therefore, while dealing with an argument keep things under control so that they can be mended afterward.  

Here read 8 simple ways every smart couple should follow during a fight:

1. Drop the argument in between: The quarrel between the two of you will never cease if both have decided to have the last word. This will lead on to further argument and there are high chances of either of you ending up saying some harsh or hurtful things. The best way to deal with such situations is dropping the argument then and there. Don't drag the conversation if you sense it won't get sorted this way. Walk out the room and sit in peace for some time. This will give time to relax and think on the matter with a calm and peaceful mind. 

2. Don't stick to the subject: Once you have decided to drop an argument, give some time to it. Don't just bring it again after a gap of say an hour or so. You should wait for your partner also to get normal and have a de-stressed mind. Until and unless you both aren't ready to talk on the subject, let it rest. You can discuss it out when you feel it will be a healthy one.  

3. Stick to the present: There are times that during a fight, we tend to bring in the old mistakes in the current argument. Women especially are seen doing this and it's certainly not advisable. Always stick to the present. Don't talk about any of the past mistakes unless it has any connection with the present one. Ruing over the past matters only adds fuel to the water making the matter worse.   

4. Relax yourself: You have dropped the argument, but it's still bothering you and there's no peace of mind. Well, this will happen as your mind is still occupied with the argument. You will gain nothing out of unnecessary thinking. Get over it and relax yourself. Listen to some music, or take up any activity for that moment so that you get your attention diverted. 

5. Don't involve a third party: Now this can be the most dangerous step to take. When dealing with a spat with your partner, avoid the interference of a third party. Don't call up your mom, sister, brother or for that matter a friend. Involving them in your personal matter might offend your partner. Avoid reporting it to anyone unless there is a need for some serious attention from all.   

6. Analyze yourself too: It's not necessary that the fault is with your partner only. At times, you can also be guilty and there is no harm in accepting the mistake. But to realize the wrong in you, you will have to analyze yourself. Think over the matter with a relaxed mind and try and figure out what exactly went wrong. Recall the words you said and the type of reaction you gave. Once you do this, the picture would become very clear and it will help you in taking a constructive decision.   

7. Be a good listener: No matter how big or small the matter is, the end of the day, just remember one thing that the person before you is the one whom you love dearly. Therefore, it is important that they are given a chance to explain themselves. Listen to what your partner has to say instead of pinpointing or looking for faults in him. If you are a good speaker, try and be a good listener too. 

8. Forgive & forget: As soon as you get over an ugly spat; erase it from your memory. Focus on the 'make up' part and try to make it the best. Plan a date or arrange for a candle light dinner. Ladies can always cook something special or present their spouses with a bunch of roses or a romantic card.

Handle the spats in a smart way and don't let your relationship pay the cost of your weakness in dealing with adverse situations!