Pregnancy is one of those times when a woman’s body is very tender and there are certain facts that women should keep in mind before they try sex just after having a baby. It is very essential that a woman takes full care of her and restrain herself from any sexual activity after baby birth is advised by doctors. Some of the important facts related to sex after baby is as follows:
1. Scary First Time: If you have a normal delivery then doctors usually suggest to restrain yourself for six weeks before you can get any sexual pleasure. Although you had a baby and not a virgin but after the scary extraction process you will find it a bit difficult to actually do it. But this fear lasts only for a few days after that you feel normal to have sex again.
2. Sex falls back on you’re to do List: Having a baby is not an easy job but looking after your baby 24/7 is an even more difficult job. At the end of the day you will be so exhausted that even the idea of having sex will feel tiring to you. After looking after your baby whole day long you will want to get some rest and sleep.
3. Some Women sexier after child birth: Some women enjoy the freedom and luxury after child birth. Their body is finally normal and when you look at yourself in the mirror you find that your boobs are enormous and your hair is still thick and shiny. These things turn-on some women and they enjoy having sex after pregnancy to feel they are back in the league.
4. Nursing is not a method of birth control: This is one the most important fact related to having sex after having a baby. It’s a commonly known fact that when you are breast feeding your child you don’t get your periods for several months and thereby it’s safe to have sex without protection. But that is not entirely true, nursing prevents periods but it doesn’t stop ovulating and you can get knocked up again.
5. Your Post Partum Body will turn on your Partner: You might not believe it but you’re after pregnancy stretchy tummy and squishy fat will be a major turn on for your husband. You might be over critical about your body but your partner whose baby you just had will love you even more and would love to make out with you.
6. Men have to be more emotional about sex: Men are those creatures who don’t really need a reason for having sex, but with women it is total opposite. You might need to convince your lady partner especially after child birth that your relationship is a lot more than just having sex. Be emotional about it.
7. Strong Maternal Instincts: Even a little whimper from your baby while you are doing it will cause you to break it up and go running to your baby to check if everything is ok. Although you know that your baby will be fine even if it waits for ten more minutes but your maternal instincts won’t allow you to.
8. When your partner tries something on you, you won’t feel up to it: After looking after the baby all day long and getting very less rest and having those stitches in tender parts of your body. It is advised that you keep your head calm and do not get infuriated in front of your partner and sweetly explain to him what your problem is.
9. You will get your sexy body back, but it will take some time: Well it is advised that you do not get depressed if you do not get your toned body back right away. It will take some time for you to get into shape and be an eye candy.
10. Your partner might lose interest in sex: Usually men are highly turned on by a woman who gave birth to his child but there are a few men who can not forget the scary delivery room scene and might feel hesitant to do it with you. Scary delivery rooms freak out some men.
11. Breasts not part of sex: Due to nursing your milk makers won’t be a part of your love making. They will be covered in the white fluid and you won’t have any pleasure in playing with them.
12. Start using Lubes: After child birth you may feel that you have a very dry vagina. It is a common symptom after child birth and doesn’t mean that you won’t get turned on again. But in order to satisfy your own self you can use little bit of lubricants.
13. You would do it in front of your baby: The main reason behind it is that new moms are extremely sensitive about their baby and do not want to get them out of their sight. So, although they might find it offensive, but moms will do it in front of their babies in order to ensure that their safety.
14. Daddies are always Hot: You feel be more attracted to you male partner when you see him loving your baby, changing baby diapers, cuddling the baby in his arms. These things make daddies extremely hot.
15. Tension about the shape down there: If you had vaginal birth then your vagina will not be in good shape and you will feel embarrassed to let someone there.
These are some unknown facts about sex after child birth that we hope will help you in coping up with such a problem.