For many parents across the globe, seeing their teenage child leave the computer or PlayStation to do something else might seem less of a possibility than seeing the sun rise from the west. Parents are constantly complaining about their teens watching TV all day long or texting their friends while the doorbell is constantly ringing. Nothing seems to affect these teenagers whilst they are doing what they want. They do not want to physically exert themselves at all. The highest form of physical work that they know is using the remote or the video game controller. The parents are worried and frustrated. Some think that there might be something wrong with their child, as they are sleeping all day long. The result is, there are an increasing number of dull, overweight teenagers. Also, there is a corresponding increase in the number of angry and bothered parents, who do not know what to do.

Parents can be held responsible for this condition to a certain extent. In an attempt to keep their loved children happy, they have provided them with all the luxuries. To avoid confrontation, parents believe it is better to keep the child pleased, which actually makes them lazy and irresponsible. Also, teenagers are complex beings. They try to be adults and toddlers at the same time. So, it is the responsibility of the parents to instil in them a sense of responsibility, diligence and self-worth while maintain their cool at all times. Here are a few good tips for the same:

• Setting a limit: if the parents know that endless television is playing havoc with their child’s health as well as his routine, a strict limit should be imposed on the same. It is an undeniable fact that TV, internet and video games have become an inseparable part of today’s culture. So, one must encourage the child to only spend a fair time on these and utilize remaining time in pursuing their interests.
• Spend time with your child: this is a crucial aspect of your child’ upbringing, which many parent tend to ignore. Working parents do not have time to sit and talk with their child, which results in teens becoming irritated and frustrated. They may feel that it is embarrassing to hang out with parents in public, but they do need someone to share their anxieties and thoughts.
• Give them household works: this is a great way of not only making the parents less burdened, but more importantly, teaching the child diligence and responsibility. Assign some household chores to the teens and also appreciate them if they do it well. Also, make sure you punish them if they do not get the chores done on time, like take an hour off on TV. 
• Encourage your teen to do special jobs: teenagers always want to earn some money, and this opportunity can be grabbed by parents. If the garage needs painting, or the garden needs to be weeded out, or you simply want a babysitter for a young one, ask your teenager for the same. Offer them a reasonable amount and they will gladly accept. In addition, they will become independent and less addicted to useless pursuits.
   

Being a parent of a teenager is a hard job, but communication and constant efforts are surely never going to go waste. Never criticise you child, or try to take complete control, as it will only result in a disaster. Explain them the advantages of being active and hard-working. Most of all, be patient!

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