Relationship Compability of Alphonsa with Mother as CANCER Compability are as Below.
Alphonsa feel quite smothered by family demands and at times that of friends too. Alphonsa's mother are completely opposite, they are very emotional and devoted towards the family needs. When Alphonsa and Alphonsa's mother are in a relation, Alphonsa's mother give it utmost care and attention selflessly. However, Alphonsa take it all for granted and contribute very little from its side. Alphonsa needs autonomy and independence while Alphonsa's mother longs for closeness, intimacy as well as mutual dependency. This often creates conflict between the two. Alphonsa can be selfish, impersonal, also indifferent to the Alphonsa's mother at some point of time. Alphonsa's mother too can feel very needy and sensitive as compared to Alphonsa. Alphonsa's mother can teach love and compassion to Alphonsa while Alphonsa can teach Alphonsa's mother the art of being more independent.